The Female Orgasm Explored

How Often Women Reach Orgasm - And What They Think About It!


In 2006 we conducted a survey into the female orgasm on the Internet, to which we received over 500 replies. These are the questions that we asked the women in our survey. The answers are given below (where the answers were narrative answers we have chosen a selection of typical responses).

Unfortunately we did not investigate how sexual responses change with age before, during and after the menopause - but we'll look at sexual changes after fifty in the next survey.

1 How do you feel about your body? Please name any part with which you are uncomfortable and why.
2 Are you happy with the appearance of your vulva?
3 What do you think about the scent of this part of your body?
4 What do you think about the taste of the secretions from this part of your body?
5 Would you like to tell us what you think about your vulva?
6 Are you in a relationship with a sexual partner at the moment?
7 How often do you achieve self pleasure through masturbation? (That means any sexual stimulation to your vulva, clitoris or vagina except for sexual intercourse.)
8 How often do you achieve an orgasm when you masturbate?
9 When you masturbate by stimulating your clitoris, do you also insert any object into your vagina?
10 What is your main method of masturbation, including anything that your partner does to stimulate you (except for sexual intercourse).
11 How often do you have sexual intercourse? (That is penetrative sex with your partner's penis or penetrative sex with a same-sex partner).
12 Are you able to reach orgasm during sex or intercourse, without additional clitoral stimulation, either from yourself or your partner?
13 Do you reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse with additional stimulation of the clitoris?
14 What sexual position do you favor most during intercourse?
15 Do you agree with the statement that there are both clitoral and vaginal orgasms and they are different?
16 How would you describe the difference if you answered yes to question 15?
17 What degree of sexual pleasure do you receive from the following activities?
18 Do you achieve simultaneous orgasm with your partner during sexual intercourse?
19 Have you ever faked an orgasm and if so what were the reasons for doing so?
20 You enjoy multiple orgasms during any kind of sexual stimulation?
21 And if you answered yes to question 20, how many orgasms do usually have in one session?
22 How often do you find yourself unable to achieve climax even though you are highly aroused?#
23 Have you ever attempted anal sex?
24 How many partners have you had during the time you have been sexually active ?
25 If you regard yourself as heterosexual or straight, have you ever had a same sex sexual experience?
26 What are your most and least favorite aspects of sex?
27 Do you have a fantasy about an ideal sexual experience?
28 Do you have any other comments?

 

1 How do you feel about your body? Please name any part with which you are uncomfortable and why.

Percent
I'm satisfied or very satisfied with the appearance of my body  52
My labia are too big  2
My labia are too small  2
My labia are different sizes  2
My breasts are not large enough 9
My breasts are too large 1
My breasts are different sizes or shapes 1
My breasts sag too much 2
My belly is not smooth enough 10
My butt is too big or it droops too much 3
I'm overweight 11
I'm not tall enough 1
I do not like my nose 2
I dislike all of my body 2

2 Are you happy with the appearance of your vulva?

Percent
I think it's beautiful 45
It depends, sometimes I am, sometimes I'm not 36
It's OK 13
I hate it! 6

3 What do you think about the scent of this part of your body?

Percent

Beautiful

36
Perfectly OK 39
It varies, sometimes it's OK, other times it's not 20
Not good 2.5
Disgusting 2.5

4 What do you think about the taste of the secretions from this part of your body?

Percent
Delicious 30
Great 31
I'm not fussed either way 16
Not nice 5
Sometimes OK 8
I can't imagine tasting my own juices! 10
5 Would you like to tell us what you think about your vulva?
I think a shaved vagina all over is horrid. I trim and shave the sides, but not all of it...why would any woman be influenced by standards set by porn? I also think the "little girl" look demeans women.
My cunt is pretty and pink. My labia are neither too big nor too small, but just right and I'm moderately hairy.... I shave/trim just a little but I generally like it to look natural. I worry more about how my clitoris is sized - only average and I think it's too small compared to other women's. It would be great if it were a bit bigger. It works well, though, because my orgasms; (clitoral and vaginal) come EASILY (like I do)! Sometimes I even have to pause and wait a while before I orgasm so that our lovemaking lasts longer.....usually the guy has to do this! My boyfriend - yes, plural - love all of my vagina. They love it clearly for what it is and what it does for them.... but they also think it's very pretty. One said it looked like a vagina "supermodel". I'm pretty nice to my vagina. It enjoys a lot of sex (very good sex!). It might resent me one day if I have to give birth but hopefully it will forget and forgive me. 
It is very beautiful, when opened out like a flower , it is pink, and gets very moist quickly. When fingered by a lover properly, it emits a sweet tasteful fluid.
Sexy and very neatly shaped.
It's my flower - my garden of love.
It turns me on and I get very sexy when I look at it and play with it.
I like and love it.
I'm fond of it... I've had loads of sexy fun with it, after all! The delicate taste and the sweet smell turn me on a lot - it tastes like a sense of sweet-and-sour sauce, but milder. It also turns deep colors - mostly purple and rose - when I'm feeling horny. :)
I love my cunt, my vagina.
I think it is the most beautiful.
I love my very own pussy and its power over men.
I love it.
It's gorgeous.
I like to play with and touch it.
I love its softness and unique appearance in the mirror. I love to touch it!!
I love it because I know it is the only one like it.
It's very beautiful and all my lovers agree.
I love that I have my labia come out, not go in - I want the world to see and admire them.
It is the center of the my and my lovers' universe...it gives life, it gives joy and of course sometimes pain (the curse of women)....it draws massed hordes of men with upright rods wanting to take me, and sometimes women are drawn to me as well by its beauty...it gives me sexual power and so most of the time I'm happy with it... but I admit sometimes life would be easier without it because it sometimes aches for fulfillment.
It's awesome!
It's only just ok.
I think it's ugly. Very ugly. How could anyone ever like it?
It's beautiful and mysterious, especially for men.
I love to play with the wet lovely lips, so moist and slippery and tantalizingly close to my secret cave...that's the power of cunt....
I think my vulva excites all who see it - it's just the right size and feels wonderful when touched by a lover.
I love my vulva, thank heavens. I think it's great and best of all, so far I've had not a single complaint!
The greatest thing I have.
I love it, this precious my vulva.
I look at my vagina in the mirror and I am so happy it's such a good size - I also like the feel of it when I masturbate because it is so silky smooth.
It's natural, hairy, scented and sexy.
It's great. I mean I feel comfortable with it, as liking it is a part of liking myself and my sexuality.
I often play with my gorgeous vulva, and I always enjoy the sensations it produces even if orgasm is far away. I just like to feel it in between my fingers, especially the wetness of it. My male partner says it's beautiful, tells me how good it tastes, and my female sex partner comments on it all the time, telling me how much she loves it too.
I think it's very beautiful. In fact, I think every vulva that ever existed is a wondrous garden of fertility, every one different, every one truly amazing.
Yes, it feels good when I stroke it but I think my vulva looks very ugly.
My vulva defines my femininity.....happily it's a close friend who I have come to know quite intimately. I do enjoy the time I spend with it more than the time I spend with men, because men can't get me to orgasm like I can...they simply don't know how to work it.
It's as unique as an individual's fingerprint.
I explore my labia, clitoris, vulva and vagina, I finger myself to create wetness then I taste it - divine! Then I masturbate and what's more I love doing it, because my orgasms are more intense than any I ever had with man OR woman. I love my vulva - and I love to look at vulvas and vaginas of other women. There should be a group to celebrate our womanhood, for us to compare and talk about how we look. I am very open when I discuss mine, but I know most women find it difficult.
Not so happy with it's performance for one week of every month, other than that I'm very happy -  I especially love it when I'm sexually aroused and my labia are red and swollen and my clitoris is erect and standing at attention.
I suppose it's sexy and very cute, but then it's hardly been used for anything so far!
It is nice and large, with floppy labia that are just altogether sexy.
My vulva is my best friend, can you believe? Everyday I give it some extra special attention. My boyfriends all appear to love it and I too think it is very beautiful. Especially when it is smoothly shaven. ;)
It's really wet and running with juice, so I love to finger myself and lick the juice after...it turns me on soooo much...and also makes me reach my orgasm much quicker!
It is something to be enjoyed by a penis but nothing more than that.
My vulva is simply a work of art, and it's so much more interesting than a man's genitals.
I like it, and my boyfriend seems to love it.
It's mine, it's part of what makes me a feminine woman along with breasts and body, and I love it and my partner loves it too - in fact, he says it's the nicest flower he's ever seen!
Small and neat, I think it's a tight little treat. Small and neat, my man loves to eat me! It's flavor's so sweet, it can't be beat.
Beautiful, voluptuous, feminine, sweet.
It is so soft and gently pliable. I enjoy fingering it and spreading out the lips sp easily.
It's soft, red, lovely.
The most beautiful flower I ever beheld.
It's sexy.
Just beautiful.
Great!
I like it very much. As do my lovers. 
It's cool.
I like how my vulva lets me get so much pleasure in so may ways. I simply love having a clitoris because I can have as many orgasms as I want in basically a single session with my wonderful vibrator. I love having a miniature "foreskin" over my clitoris and being able to slide it back to reveal the wonderfully smooth pearl that lies beneath!
I really love the whole of my wonderful vagina. I enjoy having sex when ever I can get it.
I think my vulva is just beautiful. I have seen several other women's and I honestly think mine is prettier and sexier.
I've known (and explored) my vulva since I was 8. I love it.
I think it is a totally unique part of my body, and one that not many people can appreciate or understand well, probably since it differs so much from woman to woman.
It's great.
6 Are you in a relationship with a sexual partner at the moment? Percent
Yes 60
Maybe 11
No 29
7 How often do you achieve orgasm through self-pleasuring or masturbation? (That means any sexual stimulation to your vulva, clitoris or vagina except for sexual intercourse.) Percent
Less than once a month 13
1 - 2 5
3 - 5 10
6 - 10 14
11 - 19 19
20 or more 39
8 How often do you achieve an orgasm when you masturbate?  Percent
Never 7
1 time in 4 or so 12
2 or 3 times in 4 or so  26
4 times out of 4  50
I don't know what an orgasm is! 5

9 When you masturbate by stimulating your clitoris, do you also insert any object into your vagina?

  Never From time to time When I feel like it Often Always
One finger
10%  20%  20%  25%  25% 
Two or more fingers
12%  18%  17% 25%  28% 
A vibrator
32%  15%  17%  20%  16% 
A household object - like a cucumber, maybe
45%  15%  15%  8%  17% 
Yes, I like that sense of being penetrated and filled up when I reach climax
15%  15%  20%  15%  35% 
10 What is your main method of masturbation, including anything that your partner does to stimulate you (except for sexual intercourse)?
My boyfriend licks me all over my vulva and flicks my clitoris with his tongue.
I use the shower head to spray myself to orgasm in the bathtub!
I use circular pattern to rub on my clitoris with my hand.
I use a single finger on my right hand, while my boyfriend uses his tongue.
Clitoral stimulation with a finger or using a shower massage.
Two fingers deep in my vagina while I use another one to rub my clitoris.
My partner nuzzles my vulva with his nose and sticks his tongue into my vagina as he inhales my lovely aroma ...he then gently stimulates my clitoris with the flat of his tongue, and he also strokes the clitoral shaft and nibbles it until I ejaculate all over his face.
Clitoral stimulation using my fingers.
I don't personally especially like vibrators that are too strong, they make my clitoris feel numb. But if I don't have a lover, I like using non-vibrating dildos that feel like a penis. And I also like to rub my clitoris using my hand and fingers, though this may sometimes be too much pressure, so I prefer something softer like a rolled up pillow.
I start with some oral sex given by my boyfriend, then he likes to put our favorite toy inside my vagina or he will put his penis in me - which he really loves! And he also likes to continue to stimulate my clitoris until I reach orgasm.
I move my fingers rhythmically in & out of my vagina and at the same time I squeeze my legs together this takes me to orgasm in no time!
I rub my clitoris fast using the flat palm of my hand.
I use my balled-up fist and/or my fingers, and sometimes I will use a vibrator.
Finger stimulation of my clitoris.
Playing with my clit in whatever way I want!
I usually use two fingers and play with my clit until I come.
I usually lie flat on my back and then play with my vulva suing my right hand. Once I start feeling aroused, I like to rub the shaft of my clitoris through the labia until I'm near orgasm, then I slow my movements down and use one of my dildos or a jelly vibrator to tease myself for a while before I let myself come.
I have a huge thick black dildo that I like to put inside my vagina, and fantasize about a huge black man screwing me.
I mainly use my fingers, lots of lube, and rub my clit.
I massage my clitoris with the flat of my hand in a circular motion.
I like to rub my clitoris with my fingers and then insert a vibrator in my vagina.
I have an electric muscle massager...I pull open my labia and expose my huge clit, then I place the massager on my clit. I may even put the handle into my vagina as I use the electric vibrator...I love feeling my orgasm when I have a big hard object in my cunt. It's almost as good as reaching orgasm with my boyfriend's cock in me.
He gets me aroused and while he is licking me out he uses a vibrating dildo to penetrate me. I fantasize that two men are making love to me at the same time. I always come very quickly!
I usually use my finger to masturbate myself. I might use a couple of fingers on the tip of my clitoris and then I go faster or slower depending on how it feels but I usually come after about 10 to 15 minutes, after which I start again.
I don't like doing it myself, somehow I need more practice, but when my boy does it, he gives me multiple orgasms.
I lick my fingers to lube them and then I push the slowly into my vagina and I rub gently, until I get myself wet, until I hear the "squelch" of my vaginal wetness which tips me over into my orgasm. Sometimes I like to massage and stroke my thighs and especially my nipples which arouses me quicker.
I lie on my back using two pillows to keep my ass in the air, my hips are raised up which means I can have better access to my cunt, and I use plenty of lube and rub my clit as well....then, when I feel really horny I will slide the handle of my hairbrush deep inside my vagina...I keep rubbing my clit till I come.
Water out of the bath tub faucet.
My usual method is to use my fingers to stimulate my clit, I pull apart my labia, while I enjoy generally stroking/rubbing my vulva and clit. A finger pushed inside my vagina rapidly brings me to climax.
I rub my clit in circles using two fingers, then I finger myself, as deep as I can get, while flicking the clit itself. 
I always come easily on my own.... I spread my legs, wide apart, then I rub my clit with two fingers, at first rather gently, while I put two fingers in my vagina and spread my own wetness if I need it, but gradually getting faster. I like to pull the hood back over my clit and also smack it sometimes because the contrast between pain and pleasure I find very stimulating. When I reach orgasm, I like to squeeze my legs together and make the orgasm more intense. My individual hot spot is located just to the left of my clit, and I'm left handed, so that makes for a perfect match! Also, my right nipple is more sensitive than the other one, so if I rub it while I stimulate my clit, I can come over and over again!
Normally I enjoy a lot of fantasy while I masturbate, lying on my back, pulling my knees up, keeping my eyes closed. As my clit is hypersensitive, it isn't especially comfortable to touch it directly, so I  usually rub my labia together over the clit, or stroke all around it. Usually I insert a finger or two as well, often curling them back to hit my G-spot. This is, I find, the best way of manifesting a better sexual relationship.
My best way to come is to have my partner licking me out while he also uses a vibrator on me.
I just use my fingers and hands. Since this is so effective, why use anything else? Plus they aren't as noisy as vibrators, which means you don't have to worry about any embarrassment!
To be exact: I put my left middle finger inside my vagina, while my right forefinger and middle finger play with the area just below my clitoris.
I lie on my back and spread my legs wide apart, then I open my labia and begin to massage my vulva, slowly at first, up and down between the inner lips, intensifying the sense of touch. I like to put a finger or two inside my vagina and take as much wetness as I can to my slit if it has not seeped out of its own accord. I use my left hand, using a couple of fingers to rub my clitoris, I pull the hood back and smack it from time to time, because the pleasure/pain balance is always  glorious. I intensify the rubbing on my clit, chiefly on the left side until I feel my orgasm coming, at which point I put my fingers inside my vagina and bring my legs together tightly. This always makes my orgasm very intense. Even after I've reached orgasm, I rub my clit for the after-effects. If I'm in a hurry though, I can make myself come quickly by sticking my hand down my panties no matter what I'm doing, quickly rubbing my clit with a finger, not exploring my cunt, not putting fingers inside my vagina, nothing more than a quick rubbing of my clit, and there you are, I come!
I make circles around my clit, and I keep touching the inside of my leg.
I love it when my male partner uses my massive dildo on both my vagina and butthole, because he knows exactly where to stimulate me!
I start out slowly by gently rubbing my clit. I slowly push two fingers into my pussy and then I slowly stimulate my G-spot. I will usually get my vibrator out and push it inside me as I play with my clit until I reach orgasm.
I masturbate myself by using a vibrator until I am highly aroused and then I stuff candles, cucumbers, a zucchini into my vagina. I also think it's extremely exciting to gradually increase the pressure and then let my pee squirt out in a huge arc as I come!
I usually enjoy masturbating by using two fingers, but sometimes I use a vibrator...and also sometimes my boyfriends do it for me!
I lie on my front on the bed on a towel and then rub my clit on it while I also push a dildo up my vagina - if my boyfriend is here, he does from behind. He also loves to play with my asshole while I come!
I mount a pillow with a strap-on dildo belted onto it.
I spit on my fingers and when they are well lubed, I play with my clitoris.
Most of time I use my vibrator, and my boyfriend uses a little vibrator he can strap on his tongue.
I usually use my a finger to play with my clitoris before I use 2 fingers to rub along my vulva in a slow, luxurious up and down movement.
I apply hard pressure on the tip of my clit, and at the same time either me or my boyfriend puts a finger in my vagina.
I rub my fingers back and forth and along my labia so I get indirect pressure until I'm near orgasm, then I touch the clit itself and that makes me come in seconds.
I lay on my bed playing some sexy music, before I rub my clit very gently and I finger myself with 2 fingers. After a long, slow build-up, I squirt all over the bed.
Lying on my belly, using both hands under me to play with my clit.
I absolutely adore rubbing my partner's penis up and down my slit and on my clit.
I use my fingers on my slit or my boyfriend stimulates me with his tongue in a fast circular motion.
My main method of masturbation is to use a shower head or running water.
I start by stroking the inside of my thighs using oil to lube myself, before gradually working a finger into my vagina, then alternating with long strokes all the way from my butt hole to my clit, and every so often putting one or two fingers into my vagina. If I'm using a dildo or vibrator I start off with it on a low setting before flicking it across my clit, but  I can only do this after I'm highly aroused otherwise it's just too intense!
At home if my man is not around I will enjoy masturbating myself. I always start by playing with my lips between two of my fingers. After a while, some lubrication will help me play outside and inside my vagina, using a dildo or a vibrator. After about 5 to 10 minutes I start to orgasm. And when I come I use a finger directly on my clit.
I almost always use a vibrating massager which gives me at least ten huge orgasms every time I masturbate - my husband loves to watch me.
I just get into a very horny mood, highly aroused, and then start rubbing my clit through my panties until I get hotter, at which point I remove them and simply go for it with my finger.
I take my index and third fingers and place them on each side of my clitoral shaft, scissoring them back and forth until I achieve orgasm.
I just stimulate the clitoris and inner labia, but mainly the clitoris, and this stimulation should be using lots of lube, teasing it smoothly till I explode!
I masturbate mainly by rubbing my clit against another object, normally a pillow.
11 How often do you and a partner have penetrative sex?  Percent
Never or very rarely 23
1 or 2 times a month 12
3 to 6 15
7 to 11 20
12 or more 30
12 Do you come during sex from thrusting alone (without additional clitoral play)? Percent
Never
35
Up to one time in ten, say
10
Up to one time in four
5
Up to half the time
10
Up to three out of four times
15
Most times
25

 
13 Do you ever climax during intercourse? If so, what sexual position do you use to get to orgasm? 
Man entering me from behind as I bend over and I frig my own clitoris.
We love the missionary position, and we have oral stimulation first, until I am extremely aroused, then he just enters me, we go at it, and there is enough friction on my G-spot to make me orgasm during sex.
When I made love to my last boyfriend, we would use the man on top or missionary position and I would play with my clit to make me come while he thrusted. Alternatively we would do it doggy style, with deeper penetration which put the shaft of his penis into direct contact with my clitoris. He lasted for ages before he came, which allowed me to get aroused enough to achieve orgasm, and he enjoyed coming as my vagina pulsed around his cock. The big problem was that doggy style sex seemed a bit disconnected. Using visualization, I manifested a better relationship almost immediately!
I have to play with my clitoris during sexual intercourse with my boyfriend because his penis is short and very thick.
One of the best sexual techniques I know of is for me - his girl - to be lying on top of him, face to face, and then I can have his hands positioned on his pelvis which means they create a bump for my clitoris to rub against.
Normally I play with my clit but if even when I don't I can still get to orgasm.
I stimulate my clitoris with a vibrator.
My boyfriend knows how to take a woman to orgasm - usually he masturbates my clit when he gives me an orgasm .
I haven't achieved orgasm yet, but I've got really close when we use woman on top combined with clitoral stimulation: I straddle him, but facing away from him, which gives me more stimulation than any other position.
No, I can reach orgasm any way. I climax as much as five to six times a session.
If I push my body against his pelvic bone during sexual intercourse I will reach orgasm.
If my male partner gives me oral sex, then penetrates my vagina, I will climax only when I massage my clit. I think maybe I have masturbated so much to orgasm that now I can't achieve an orgasm without some direct stimulation of the clitoris.
I am very lucky because I love my partner so much that I reach orgasm when he sticks his cock in me!
I have to use clitoral masturbation.
I achieve orgasm during intercourse with or without clitoral stimulation, I always come!
We prefer to lie with me on my back, my male partner above, and I place my hand between us and play with my clitoris.
I mostly use clitoral masturbation to reach orgasm.
It's not a sexual position, it's a sexual technique. If he orally stimulates me before penetration, I achieve orgasm easily. If we go straight for penetration, it takes me longer to reach orgasm, but all sex positions are just as good for me in this respect - and sometimes I need to be taken hard and fast, and those times are some of the best!
More of a chance for me to reach orgasm if he's behind me and I'm kneeling - especially if there's a mirror available - in which case I will get really turned on and occasionally I can come through sexual intercourse alone.
I don't really know if I am able to reach orgasm in this way as I've only had sex a few times... I wasn't actually ready or, to be honest, wanting it...I've had sex with several boys in other ways (masturbating each other, giving each other oral sex) and in total I have only reached orgasm on three occasions - which isn't very impressive given the fact that I can come easily on my own.
I start with my partner's erect penis positioned in my vulva, and I like to rub my clitoris up and down on his knob until I am wet. After this, I love to have him put his cock inside me from the rear entry position and thrust. We will then move in rhythm quite a bit, often changing positions, and we generally have a wonderful time feeling each other moving together.
I usually play with and rub my clitoris, as this always makes me really wet and juicy and gets me ready to come more often and harder when he enters me and starts to fuck me. I love it!!
I rub my clitoris with my fingers using a great deal of pressure as my boyfriend and I make love.
I get on top - which is one way in which I am able to control how my clitoris will rub up against his body.
I find being on top during sex helps me to reach orgasm nearly every time. We also like the rear entry sex as this always enables him to hit my G spot! I need to tell you that before my husband I'd never reached orgasm during sexual intercourse - not once! and I have to say I'd certainly slept with a few different men. I think it helps to reach orgasm when you're making love with your favorite guy!
The best way for me to reach orgasm is during sex with me on top - that presents no problem, and another good way is during man on top sex with him fingering me around the clitoral region.
I or he usually stimulates my clit while we have foreplay and after he's penetrated me,  or even when he uses a dildo inside me
I push a finger inside my vagina during intercourse as he thrusts hard and then I touch and press on my G-spot (which is not hard, believe it or not!).
If I don't think I am going to achieve orgasm, I usually play with my clitoris until I feel myself coming.
I've never reached orgasm during sexual intercourse, even when I've tried desperately, no matter what sex position we have used.
Well yes, I can reach orgasm while having sex if I stimulate my clitoris for a long period of time, but usually my boyfriend ejaculates long before I come, so this is a bit hit and miss.  A much better system is for me to achieve orgasm first, then he enters me and we have wonderful intercourse, the advantage of this is that I am swollen inside and my man enjoys sex better since he finds my cunt is tighter.
14 What position do you enjoy or use most often during intercourse? Percent
Man on top or missionary 31
Woman on top facing the man 18
Woman on top facing the other way 3
Rear entry standing or sitting 34
Side by side 4
Standing or kneeling 1
15 Do you think clitoral and vaginal orgasms are two different things? Percent
Yes  49
No  31
Don't know  20
16 What's different between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral orgasm?
All my orgasms are fantastic and come from the same place.
Vaginal orgasms are much harder to achieve than clitoral orgasms.
I prefer an orgasm from my clitoris as my body goes into seemingly endless spasms which make me feel like I am floating on air and I produce a lot of vaginal secretions.
Vaginal orgasms tend to be more all-over-the-body rather than in the genitals.
Clitoral orgasms originate from the clitoris and pass around like a bolt of electricity that spreads outwards from the clitoris and move up and around. They also feel shorter, sharper and more intense. Vaginal orgasms are somehow bigger, in that the orgasm has the sense of coming from a larger place, and it's as if your whole body is in the throes of orgasm. they also take longer to reach and somehow feel like you have to hold on to them for them to happen, after which it feels like "wave" exploding out of the vagina, while a clitoral climax feels more like a bolt of  lightning coming out of the clitoris. That must be how the law of attraction strikes people!
The difference is with that a clitoral orgasm makes you come quickly but when you have a vaginal orgasm the whole thing is much slower and more of a whole body experience; it's also much more emotional. Let me also add that for women, to squirt is only possible through G spot stimulation, as doyennes of the technique will confirm!
Clitoral climaxes are much shorter, more intense, and feel better than vaginal - at least for me, and also more vaginal fluid is produced.
Yes, I think I agree with what you say. I've felt two seemingly distinct types of climax - ones feel centered in the clitoris, which tend to be shorter and explosive, and also vaginal orgasms which feel centered inside my body somewhere (perhaps centering on the uterus?) and seem to be much more muscular and wave like.
The G-spot makes a vaginal orgasm much more powerful.
Clitoral orgasms are short, sharp and intense. Vaginal orgasms have a deeper and much fuller quality.
Yes. Vaginal orgasms come from deeper inside the body.
Yes. Clitoral climaxes are usually more powerful while vaginal orgasms come from the depths of my being.
Yes, vaginal orgasms are much more satisfying, while clitoral orgasms are sharper and intense.
Clitoral orgasms are more powerful.
Vaginal climaxes tend to be deeper and last longer.... while the clitoral climaxes are a quick high!
The difference seems to be around the way we stimulate them. But an orgasm is an orgasm no matter where you think it comes from.
Yes, the clitoral orgasm is quicker while vaginal orgasms are more of an all-over-my-body experience.
Yes clitoral orgasms are more powerful albeit shorter lived, while vaginal orgasms seem much more soothing and healing.
I find clitoral orgasms very rewarding in their intensity, while they do have the added pleasure of having your man's penis inside your most intimate place. Bliss!
Yes and I've only experienced the clitoral kind, but it sounds to me like the clitoral orgasm is probably shorter and more powerful.
Yes! Vaginal is something you experience deep inside, while the clitoral climax is more external and much more of a superficial thing.
Yes I do agree there are two types. The vaginal orgasm is much more emotional, deep-seated, and covers the whole body but is harder to achieve; the clitoral is a great deal more more focused on one point, and is very concentrated in the genital area.
Yes I agree with you because a clitoral orgasm always arrives with great speed and great intensity, whereas one that comes from the vagina is deeper, more centered inside my body, and also seems to last longer.
Yes I feel vaginal orgasms are more mellow, deeper somehow, both physically and mentally, and go on a bit longer than does a clitoral. When I enjoy self-pleasuring, i.e. masturbating, I usually have clitoral but when I am with my partner I am able to have a vaginal climax for some reason I don't fully understand. 
I agree that they are probably different but I find it hard to articulate what that difference is.
There is a big difference but it's odd, because all I can say is one is more "full" than the other (that's the vaginal).
Yes, vaginal ones are warm, clitoral experiences are hard and deep.
Vaginal feel much sweeter emotionally.
With vaginal orgasms I experience a wonderful tingle right through me all the way to my feet. With a clitoral orgasm I pulsate, I don't tingle.
Clitoral seems like a softer orgasm although if I manage to get both clitoral and vaginal at the same time it is amazing! But a climax from the vagina seems to be much stronger and seems to last for much longer too.
When I experience clitoral stimulation I always tend to think my orgasms are usually more powerful if shorter lasting
I think clitoral could be described as more intense and vaginal could be described as rather subtle.
Vaginal gives a sense, at least it does for me, of being "filled", while the other kind, the clitoral, feels like it is much more "on the specific spot".
Yes, I agree that women have at least two types of orgasms and I can only offer the statement that vaginal last longer. If you want to knowmore about the female orgasm, and how to make it happen more easily, check out Lloyd Lester's excellent orgasm program (that is to say, a program designed for women to make having orgasms easier) at Lloyd Lester's program Orgasm by Command - it's full of information on helping a woman to achieve oragsm easily. This is probably the single most powerful factor in improving men and women's sex lives! Oh - after dealing with erectile dysfunction, low sex drive, relationship issues, and other important points such as the male andropause and the female menopause.
Yes, and I think the vaginal orgasm is rather like a kick in the small of the back it's so powerful.
No, I think the only thing that is different is the actual intensity of the orgasmic experience.
Clitoral climaxes win hands down, as they are more intense.
One's much deeper than the other.
I tend to feel an explosion which takes place in my clitoris, or if it is vaginally-based, then in the walls of the vagina, so I think whichever part of your body you stimulate produces enough sensitivity to stimulate an orgasm, while I think from personal experience that clitoral orgasms are by far the best!
I have to say I do get pelvic contractions when I have a vaginal orgasm - and these contractions are much more superficial in any other kind of climax.
17 How much pleasure do you have during these activities?
% Loads!  It's very good Good OK Pah!
Sexual intercourse alone
15 30 30 15 10

Sexual intercourse when partner plays with clitoris

45 20 20 10 5

Sexual intercourse with you play with my own clitoris

35 30 20 15 10

Masturbation by hand

50 40 5 3 2

Masturbation with objects

40 40 15 3 2

Partner masturbates you

45 35 15 3 2

Oral sex (partner gives you head)

60 25 5 5 5
18 Do you achieve mutual, simultaneous climax with your partner during sexual intercourse? Percent
Never
40
Occasionally
40
Frequently
10
Pretty much always
10
19 Have you ever pretended to come during sex, and if so why? Percent
Yes 60
No 40
 
Yes. Once or twice I pretended to have an orgasm to get it over with - he had delayed ejaculation and just wasn't up to scratch.
No, I have been with my partner so long, that when he wants to have sex, and I don't, I just let him fuck me and I just make it quick.
Yes, to protect his ego.
Yes, half the time, for something to do.
Yes...worried that man will feel he's not pleasing me.
Yes, often, because I don't know if I am having one or not. I usually don't have any fluids come out.
I have, to avoid disappointing my partner.
Once, when this guy was fingering me with his too-long fingernail just so he'd stop. He thought my gasp of pain was a gasp of pleasure, so I went with it.
2 times, just to make him feel good I guess.
Very often. I get sick of trying to cum and my partner feels bad if I don't.
No, and I never will. How will men learn to be better lovers if we do that?
Yes, when it's enough already and I want to get some sleep. Hardly ever.
Yeah. Not often. If he's taking too long and I'm tired.
Yes, to save the guy's feelings.
Yes.....a lot...so they would feel good/ stop.
No. I always get there.
Yes, to make him feel good.
Yes, just because I don't want my partner to get a complex about not making me come. He went for hours one night trying to make me have a vaginal orgasm, so I finally just gave my best acting performance to get him off and out of me.
Yes. Just to make my lover enjoy his effort.
Often when I'm tired.
Of course, just to get things over with.
Yes, because I'm tired and so to let him come I fake it.
Yes, because he was too small and couldn't use it.
A few times, if I knew I couldn't climax, I would do it for his pleasure (squeezing down, coughing etc)
Yes I've faked for his ego in the past, but I no longer do that. I feel my orgasm is as important as his, and he agrees. If I can't have one, I just enjoy the ride and being naked and close with him, and I may masturbate with his help after we have sex, and I'm always successful when we do that.
Yes, it's easier than to explain why I didn't come.
Nope. Faking isn't fair, it's mean and it's cheating. If you can't get there, just tell the man (or woman)...he/she might feel crappy about not getting you there, but I guarantee they'll feel more crappy if they find out you've been faking the whole time...telling your partner enables you to try new things that might get you there...faking doesn't.
I used to fake, but decided to stop because I feel I deserve an orgasm as much as he does. It required only my speaking up and telling him what I like, what will make me cum. I don't know why I faked for so long when having orgasms is so easy once my partner learned what I needed.
Yes he gets worried if I don't come.
I have only faked an orgasm once. He was very proud and I couldn't tell him that I had not come.
I've only faked it once just to see how the man felt watching me doing it.
Yes, got bored.
Of course, don't we all?
I used to with my ex husband, he didn't ever worry about me having an orgasm, so I led him to believe he was really doing something.
Not anymore no. I've never had to fake it with my husband but yes I did with other partners every time. Sad, eh?
Of course but only when I am too tired to orgasm in fact, and he doesn't get it.
Yes, not often though. I feel that my partner should know exactly how I feel, it enhances the possibility of achieving orgasm, because he tries harder.
Never, it's better to talk and find out what was wrong.
Yeah, because we were fucking without a condom and I didn't want him to cum in me.
Daily. Because it would break his heart to know he can't make me orgasm.
I have never faked any orgasms.....I come all the time unless I'm in a hurry and don't have the time for my partner to make me come.

20 Do you ever have multiple orgasms?

Percent
Never 
13
Occasionally 13
Sometimes 40
Often
14
Always
20
21 If you enjoy multiple orgasms, how many orgasms do you have in one session? Percent
It's never happened
13
2 - 3
48
4 - 5
25
6 or more
14
22 How often, when highly aroused, do you fail to climax? What do you do about it?
Yes this has happened. Usually persistence or stopping for a bit works.
A dildo.
Only when I have had a lot of sex that day, or I didn't want sex and just went along with it to please my spouse. Oral stimulation is the only way I can get off on those occasions.
This happens very often and I don't know what to do.
If my boyfriend blew softly in my ear and told me he loved me.
Fantasize about a big dick.
I don't think I ever get really sexually excited and can't reach orgasm. I come so easily! And if it's taking longer than usual I can't stop until I come. That being said I'm not sure what would help if I wasn't. If all the physical stimulation was right it could be mental. And any woman having a problem with it should get themselves in a better mental - emotional state and or let their minds relax and or go to sexual fantasy.
Porno.
For him to go down on me.
If that happens, I think of other women's cunts.
Emptying my bladder.
Clitoral masturbation.
That has never happened to me. If I'm on the brink of orgasm, I always come.
A romantic partner.
Not often. Clitoral stimulation.
To be more comfortable with myself and to stop thinking about my partner as much.
I like to tickle my vaginal opening.
Every time.
Clear my mind and focus on coming.
Stop, relax and try again
I wish I knew!
Anal stimulation.
It happens occasionally. I don't know what to do.
Most of the time; just take more time.
This happens a lot, I don't know what to do.
My partner goes deeper and faster and then the orgasm bursts through me.
Good head.
To be more relaxed during foreplay and just set my mind on the sensation that pleasure brings.
It happens every once in a while... then I just need to make myself relax and do something else then maybe come back to it later. But it's just so frustrating I keep trying and trying. Sigh. I think I just get too stimulated then lose the sensitivity and I can't come.
Sometimes. Maybe stop and cuddle some.
I have no idea.
Sexy thoughts
It doesn't happen often, but it HAS happened, and when it does, we stop and play with my pussy until I'm on the brink again!
Every time when I'm with a man, rarely if ever when alone. When I'm with a man, I think that either me telling him how to do it (something I'm shy about) or me simply taking things into my own hands (no pun intended) would make me come.
One in 20. My Sybian always works in these cases!
I rarely find I can't have an orgasm once I'm on the brink. If I feel it fading, I stop and masturbate or my partner masturbates me back to the brink, then we resume intercourse and both of us have great orgasms!
I always orgasm.
I haven't used many toys maybe that would help.
The man sometimes slows down and keeps going for longer - then sometimes it just happens.
Poor concentration due to unconscious anxiety. I wish I could relax.
I just ease off and take my time.
That's never happened to me.
Sometimes when I am too tired. I haven't found a way yet. It just seems to become painful and not worth the effort.
Never.
Maybe 4 or 5 times.....it just required more stimulus....
One in ten. It would help to be less distracted by the day-to-day things in life.
I need more stimulation to my clit.
I never have felt that way; I always orgasm.
I just keep on playing with my clit.
More often recently because my new partner gets me excited but quite often it is a quick in and out thing for him (he comes too quickly). He feels bad and he knows how I feel about this but, if he could manage to last for just a minute longer I know I would come.
I don't know, I have had this a couple of times and still can't work it out.
I usually come.
I always can cum.
Fantasy about taboo things will make me orgasm if I'm masturbating and can't seem to come right away. During my husband playing with me, if he would take more time with fingers in my vag as well as my clitoris, I might come.
Well it has happened quite a number of times but only under the influence of drugs, I suppose drugs delay orgasms....but once you finally come......it's mind-blowing!
23 Do you have anal sex? Percent
Never - it's not for me
28
Never - but I wouldn't mind trying it
10
Once or twice, just to see what it was like
20
Sometimes, to please my partner
7
From time to time
15
Often
20
24 How many sexual partners do you think you have had? Percent
None
5
Only one
20
2 or 3
10
4 or 5
15
More than 5 but less than 10
25
More than 10
25

 
25 If you see yourself as straight, have you ever sought out a same sex sexual experience ? Percent
No! Never!
25
No, but I've wanted to try it.
19
Yes, but it's not for me.
21
Yes, and I'd do it again if I could.
20
As often as possible.  
15
26 What do you enjoy most and least in sex?
The possibility of getting pregnant. Most and least!
I like everything about sex...but wish I could have orgasms through intercourse alone.
The after sex exhaustion.
The build up to the climax is the best part. The least enjoyable part - I haven't found one yet!
Intimacy.
Most - Orgasms. Least - Stopping!
Orgasm.
Everything is good.
The intimacy with the one I love is what I like most. What I like least is that I don't come and I feel like I disappoint my partner as well as myself.
I like the intimacy before during and after, I like lots of foreplay, it sometimes takes me 20 minutes to be fully aroused and thank god my boyfriend has delayed ejaculation so it took him the same amount of time to cum, maybe even longer so it was great.
Big dicks.
Most - I prefer it to be a full experience, being kissed and touched everywhere and vice versa, really being present with my partner - no pressure or inhibitions. Least - I've been with some uptight men who watch too much porn, i.e., only get off one way, don't go down, treat me like a body not a person. Fortunately, they've been the minority, but it rankles.
Least about sex? Nothing. Most about sex: the list is endless.
Everything is good.
I love the way it makes me feel and I hate it when I have my period because I can't do it. LOL!
Penises.
I like everything to do with sex.
Most - I like the feel of cum and the orgasm. Least - nothing that I can think of.
It makes my feel happy.
Like most: closeness, sensuality, sensation. Like least: feeling awkward about talking during sex.
Least: when he comes in my mouth. Most: when he comes in my cunt.
Most: the taste of my lover's body.
Most: like foreplay then penetration. Least: when there's no penetration.
I love the closeness and feeling special.
Good: it feels great, the intimacy, deep peace after. Bad: depends on the guy, but maybe not being appreciated or "seen" as me.
The closeness I love. That my boyfriend lives too far away I hate!
I like - orgasms, intimacy, great sensations. I dislike - cleaning up, peeing straight afterwards, someone focusing too hard on my pleasure.
I like the feelings and sensations and the connection. I least like the possibility of infections, not waiting long enough with a guy...and getting ready...for example shaving my legs.
Most: orgasm. Least: sometimes it's an effort.
I like to drink my own cum juice and / or my partner's.
I like the feeling of being coupled with my partner, as one. I don't like the messiness of sex, or not being able to cum.
Least: the cum coming out of my pussy, my husband has huge balls!
Most: joy... sharing ... loving... comfort.... stress release.... escape.....
Most: cumming    Least: spunk dribbling out of me afterwards!
I like the way he plays with my breasts but I hate getting dry all of a sudden, which is always the case, and the fact that I can't reach orgasm reliably.
I like the closeness.
Most - pleasure. Least - the confusion that intimacy can sometimes bring about.
That it can last forever and ever but that it can also be over so quick.
Most the closeness afterwards; least, some people just don't know how to do it or me right.
Sometimes when he takes so long and it starts to feel more irritating than good.
I love sex, but sometimes I get tired and don't want to.
I like that sex and masturbation are great forms of intimacy with a partner or with yourself. It's great to know you have all this power inside of you to feel so good.
Like: it's fun. Dislike: too much of an emotional connection with another person.
Most closeness. Least mess, and cleaning up afterwards when he's come in me.
Like: tension release, togetherness. Dislike: not in the mood, can't climax.
I love kissing and being close, feeling his or her body, feeling my lips on his cock or in her pussy. I'm very oral and that's important to me. I dislike a "too gentle" touch. I want to feel it!
The intensity: no thinking involved, totally enjoying each moment each as it comes.
If it is pleasurable it's a good release but it can cause arguments if I don't react how my partner expects me to react.
I love the intimacy, just being close to my partner...I hate the worry (am I doing this right, do I smell okay, do I look okay, should I be doing this at all, etc) and the fact that I can never seem to come, no matter how much I actually want to or how close I actually get to doing so.
Most: The bit when you know you've reached the point of no return and the orgasm is about to erupt. Least: Periods.
I love everything.
I love orgasm of course! I hate it if I have a partner who isn't into it, or I'm not into it.
I hate the meaningless touching of my breasts in an attempt to get me aroused.
Mostly about sex I like the idea of a man's cum inside of me......it really gets my juices flowing. The thing I hate is the risk of an STI.
I love the wide range of sexual positions, and I would love to have more time for sex.
Love it, hate the mess.
His penis.
My orgasm.
The foreplay.
I love the closeness that's involved and the fact that I can stop being a mom for a few hours and be a woman again spending some us time pleasing and teasing him. I love the look on my man's face when I go down on him! There is nothing I hate about sex.
The intimacy and closeness we feel after as we cuddle. The mess it can make as neither of us likes wet sheets. Also how my husband just can't seem to pick up when I am not in the mood for sex.
The dirty linen (when I'm having the monthly bleeding). The tension before and the good feeling after an orgasm.
Having multiple orgasms is great. But I dislike guys who think they have to shove it so hard from the start; and especially men who don't know anal penetration has to be slow.
The feeling of closeness to my partner.
I like everything about it.
What I most like about sex is when I am about to orgasm and I like the feel of my wet vagina and I also like to see my clit get really big. There is nothing really that I hate about sex.
Most like having him come in me. Least like going to the bathroom to get his come out of me!
The physical and emotional bond that it provides for yourself and your partner.
The best a true sense of connection that can come from being intimate with someone you love, the worst is being frustrated that they are away at the other end of the country when I want my brains fucked out.
It's all good!
Orgasms and closeness the most. Cleaning up semen the least.
I love the feelings, the pleasure and the fun. I don't like the risk of getting pregnant or STDs.
I love the close feeling and the beautiful feelings. Least I don't like some guy who thinks I should worship his cock.
I like feeling close to my husband and I LOVE when he comes. Least: When I can't come.
Feeling special.
I love everything about sex. But there is one thing I don't like about it, the fact that it is extremely difficult for both partners to come at the same time....those who do experience that are bloody lucky!
I like sex most if it's not demanded, least if it is.
27 Do you have a fantasy about an ideal sexual experience?
Would like for us to take turns tying each other up and while blindfolding my partner...try different touches and sensations all over his body without him seeing what I am going to do next until he can't stand it anymore!
I would like to be eaten out for at least 10 mins.
My ideal sexual experience is just 15-20 minutes of just kissing and rubbing each other, caresses, then a classic 69 with me on top, until I get my first climax, then penetration intercourse with me on top and finishing with me on the bottom and we come together.
Foreplay. As long as I get off I love all sex.
Long steamy foreplay followed by a mind-blowing orgasm.
Foreplay for 30 - 40 minutes.
Everything my partner does excites me, I just never climax.
I would like to do a sexy strip tease for my boyfriend and he could do the same for me, then I'd give him a sexy massage and and he could slowly and delicately give me a sensual massage and then kiss me all over and slowly kiss my outer lips with his tongue running boldly along my fleshy mound and slowly stroking the shaft of my clit with his tongue and nibbling my bud! God - heavenly!
Him licking my pussy.
Foreplay for hours, oral sex, massage, sex, mutual masturbation...the last experience I had was like this and I loved it.
Most of my sexual experiences are my "ideal". One thing I'd love to do though is have sex with two men. Double your pleasure! They wouldn't (and I probably wouldn't want them to) have to have sex with each other (I think it might be a turnoff) but I'd love to have them both "working" on me and "adoring" me at once! One kissing my breasts, one making love to me, you get the idea. Hmmmm that would be fun! :)
He licks my clit as I suck suck his cock.
An all-nighter that starts out with a candlelight dinner.
My man eats me out for ages then fucks me hard.
I would like to be gone down on for a long time and kissed all over...I want hot intense sex the kind where you can't get enough of each other.
I want to cum with several women - all naked and with huge breasts and moist cunts, all taking turns to lick my cunt and clit. 
He should do it to me with his fingers, his mouth and his penis.
Foreplay? Interesting concept... I never get it. Hmmm... I think I'd like a threesome or an orgy. I'd want to try EVERYTHING I could think of in as many different locations as possible! A whole, uninterrupted day of experimenting would be FAB.
I'd like to fuck three guys at once.
Two men.
I would like to be able to orgasm with penetration.
I am half asleep, just waking up in the morning. My partner begins to kiss me all over, then to kiss my vulva till I am hot and wet. Then he enters me. Several short strokes for each deep one. Alternating a few minutes of penis and a few minutes of tongue on my vulva. After he comes he kisses my vulva more. Then he kisses me. I love our juices together. Then he strokes my skin, outlining my body and talks with me.
I'd love to have a threesome with two guys. Having the attention of both of them would be amazing.
Summer night, beach close by, some red wine, dinner has just been eaten maybe 20 minutes ago, foreplay lasts 10 minutes developing into intercourse which goes for 20 minutes ending with simultaneous orgasms.
To please him and him please me without it getting redundant or boring exciting and fun.
I would like him to shave me if I haven't done it. He can then lick my entire body including my anus and finger me everywhere.
I love a lot of foreplay particularly being eaten out. I would like two have a three way with another woman and a man.
On a beach, totally relaxed, my partner eating me out, using oils and food on my hard clit. Not having to give him head, but having him totally devour me, and then when I least expect it, he rams his penis in me at full force. The unexpected rush of being blindly penetrated makes it that much more arousing.
I like when he licks my ass and fingers my pussy and plays with my nipples at the same time.
I would like to be able to have anyone I want at any time.... 2-3 new partners a day!
Two men.
If only he'd lick my anus....
Foreplay for half an hour. Intercourse that lasted for 15 minutes or more.
Sex all day long.
An hour of foreplay is plenty. Then he pampers me.
I would have him go down on me or we could both do a 69 at the same time and then when were both so turned on we could start a sexual encounter in doggy style position and go from there.
I love long foreplay, for me it can go on for as long as we both can. I just love when he plays with my clit, licking on it sucking on it, tonguing it, then fingering me until I come.
Two hours of sex.
I just want to have sex with someone I love. Male or female... Just want to be intimate with someone I love.
We would do sex outdoors everywhere we could without getting arrested.
Romantic evening-dinner-cuddle and kiss at home - slowly get naked - lovingly suck and tease him - lay back and relax while he licks me - gentle sex becoming more urgent until he's pounding me to climax and then he comes inside me.
It could go for a few hours to the whole day, nothing to worry about in the outside world, no tension, no one to bother us, him taking care of me and my needs, I would be selfish and have him take care of me first.
Role play; strip teases; fondling.
I have anything I want and can't think of a fantasy! We make love at spontaneous times, in different places, and he is a romantic with me.
Anything where I am the main focus although wouldn't mind another girl being involved just the usual kissing licking sucking and fucking...each new experience I enjoy...
A love triangle with another woman. 30mins of foreplay then hours of sex.
Foreplay--maybe...a half hour? I would love to experiment with sexual arousal like light bondage and possibly light S&M...I also find piercings sexy, so I'd love to pierce my partner...or maybe light blood play, provided we both were tested for all STDs and I had been with my partner for a long time...I admit, I'm kinky...I wouldn't mind trying anal sex, and I would love to have a threesome with myself and two sexy men, but my partner wouldn't be down with that, and I would love to have sex with two men...that would be hot...if I did that, I would like to see the men kiss and possibly do more with each other...it's such a turn on...I would also like shower sex, and a bubble bath, and a massage...I would want my partner(s) to focus on me and my needs first, because I'm sensual and have always had to focus on others' needs before my own...yeah...I'm pretty much into trying anything, as long as it's not involving disgusting things and isn't too painful.
Tie him up while his sister and I torment him and make love to each other.
I love it when he goes down on me and really slurps, and I love going down on him, tasting him, smelling him. He would have me stand in front of him while he eats me and reaches around me and spanks me while he's eating me. I would tie him up and tease him for a while, make him beg me to untie him so he could have a crashing orgasm.
Maybe another girl who could teach him how to do it while she gives me an orgasm to remember.
I'd like him to go down on me for longer, then I would kiss him to taste my vulva which would turn me on, then I would ride him with him wearing no condom. I would then suck him off until he came then I would lick his bum hole! That would turn me on a lot!
I would like to be able to have more then one orgasm.
Well we'd be in a little cottage, open fire, the lot, a few bottles of good red wine, the foreplay would last for hours but then I'd take charge and I would tease my man till he could take no more. I'd strip for him and dance round the pole that I've had put there. He'd love that but no touching, then I'd blindfold him and rub my pussy in his face till I'd come all over him. And his hands would be tied so he'd get pent up with frustration. Then he'd burst free and he'd grab me and thrust me up the wall and screw me so hard and fast the orgasms would just keep coming and coming and coming!
A slow sensual massage with him kissing and rubbing my body. Then have him eat me while I eat him. Then followed by long slow intercourse. Then a long session of cuddling to bring us back to earth. I would like foreplay to last until my first orgasm if possible. More energy and time to enjoy each other fully.
Having my partner undress me, using only his teeth. Sex in the shower. Licking his prick until he comes.
Foreplay....maybe half hour or 45 minutes.
Feeling him sucking me as I suck him.
Depends on the situation. A quickie may well be as hot an experience as a full night of sex and playing.
Sexual intercourse with 6 men.
My ideal sexual experience would be for me and my girlfriend to have a 4-some with 2 other girls.
Lying there letting him kiss me and suck my tits and go down on me for as long as he wants.
Lots of gentle kisses and touches all over my body for at least ten minutes, touching me everywhere except for my vagina, then for him to enter me slowly building up pressure and momentum very slowly till neither of us can take it any longer and we both come in a massive orgasm together.
Start Saturday morning and finish Sunday night, in a nice country hotel and a hot tub on a balcony with nice sunny weather and a clear night.
Being penetrated by 3 people at once and all action captured on video so that it's available to the public.
I would masturbate with my vibrator while watching another woman have orgasms.
I would love if I had the cutest guy in the world fuck me in every single position ever invented and in every hole for one week solid.
I always like to be brought to orgasm before penetration. I especially love it if he makes me come with his tongue. I can come two or three times like this and then I want to feel him inside me.
I'd like to start with a lot of kissing and touching. Maybe less contact with my nipples, and more on and in my vagina. I'd like longer foreplay for at least 20 mins. He lasts a very long time once we start intercourse, so I have no complaints there!
The longer the foreplay the better the orgasm, not too long of course (max 30 mins) or else it could get tiring....and what I'd do to him? Well, just keep sucking on him like it's the last strawberry lollypop in the world and I'm a little child who just can't seem to get enough of it! Yeah that's what Id love to do....suck like there's no tomorrow!
28 Do you have any other comments?
During masturbation, I dream of a hard shiny penis sliding into a wet vagina and picture me as the owner of the vagina, and I come up off that bed screaming.
I've never taken part in group sex but I would like to be with more than one man.
I think that clitorises get a lot of play and well they should, they're important but I LOVE penetration and penises are perfect for this. They should get their due! :)
I hate my long flaps!
What happens to my body? When I have exceptionally good orgasms, the sensation goes all the way down to my toes, and up through the centre of my abdomen - it's heavenly. My eyes go back in my head, my back arches, and I feel tingly all over afterwards. Sometimes my vision goes out, and if I try to stand up my legs are too weak. Fantasies - I have all kinds of fantasies: animal sex, evil gynecologist, sex with my favorite rock-stars, imagining myself as male, orgy fantasies, imagining two hot guys together, etc, etc. Group sex - I fully intend to try it!
I fantasize sex with big cats. Lions and jaguars.
When I cum, I lose all control of my leg muscles...they twitch and jerk...my clit becomes so sensitive that it can't be touched. I have fantasies of my lover eating me out, and me giving him the ultimate blow job.
I fantasize being gang banged by strangers who talk nasty to me.......
When I come I'm rough, I claw, scratch and bite. If it's really good, I'll have trouble standing or walking right after.
I just feel beautiful when I'm coming. Sigh.
I've never had group sex and don't want it. I am bisexual but I keep the two separate. I find I think of him all the time, we live in different cities and have to arrange our times together, and I find myself looking forward to them, dreaming of what we'll do next! We are very satisfied with this arrangement, and we have no intention of moving in together. We don't live that far apart, so we see each other often. With a woman, I haven't even begun to explore all my fantasies! I am extremely bisexual and I always look forward to being with a woman, but having had a few, I find I like the aggressive women more than the passive ones in bed. I like boldness, directness, wanton sex with a woman, but with my male partner I like kissing, sweet cuddling, and making it last several hours. It's a different experience for each and I love both.
There are so many things I could say...I will admit that I love to orgasm. I wish it could happen more with my partner, rather than only when I'm alone...I have a very active imagination, and frequently imagine myself with various famous men...I'm really into musicians, and I love gothic or punk looking men...I'm so into piercings and tattoos and crazy hair...I'd love to be able to get down and dirty with several men - Davey Havok, singer of AFI, and the twins, Benji and Joel, from Good Charlotte...which leads me back to the twin fantasy...sleeping with those two twins at one time would truly blow my mind...okay, I'm going to leave now, you've gotten me all hot and bothered with these questions...I'll definitely be getting intimate with my vulva (alone, thank you) tonight!
My entire body feels my orgasms. I get chill bumps, my nipples harden, my breath comes in short gasps, and I get very hot. I am a bisexual woman, and I love sex with women as much as I do with my male partner of 4 years. I love the curves of another woman's body, the way her vagina tastes and the softness of her inner lips on my tongue. I love nipples, and breasts are one of my biggest turn-ons. It's great to look between my legs and see a woman there, enjoying my womanhood and allowing me to enjoy hers. Women know what other women want, and orgasms are different with a woman than with a man. Women "get it" about each other, and we aren't as hung up about our body image as we are with a man. I do love sex with my male partner. He is shaved from head to toe, and I love the smoothness of his skin, I love taking his perfectly smooth balls in my mouth, kissing his smooth body. His cock is the object of my desire! Even after we have made love and both of us have had an orgasm or two, I still want to look at him, touch him, and watch him harden again. I can't get enough of him. We haven't taken part in group sex. My male partner and I want only us when we're having sex, but I have had sex with two women at once. I find it too distracting though, I can't concentrate on her or me. A fantasy of mine is to meet a woman and end up in bed with her not long after we meet, animalistic desire taking over. I'd love to be seduced by a woman who doesn't know I'm bisexual, have sex with her and never see her again. I don't have any fantasies about men because I am very satisfied with my sex life with my partner. He knows I'm bisexual but he does not ask to watch or participate, because when we are together, we are exclusive. He does want to hear about what I do though. I am quite satisfied sexually.
I love coming but the time I had the best sex ever, it made me squirt! He loved it and started to lick the come. This has never happened since but boy I wish it would.
I would love to know how to be able to have more orgasms. After I have one I'm not horny any more.
Group sex is overrated. Been there, done it, worn the t shirt, I prefer one on one!
I would like very much to try a lesbian orgy of more than ten people, you know hot sweaty and anything goes.
I a horny, slutty middle school female student. I have participated in group sex with 5 other boys. I've had sex with older men, younger men, women. I do enjoy looking at porn so I can learn new moves and such. I've had anal sex, oral sex and vaginal sex. I've been raped. I do not enjoy role play sex and I wish my ass was smaller.
Yes, I have been in group sessions more than a few times. An ex-boyfriend and I were in a swinging group. It was great then but now I am more concerned about safe sex. I have also been with a few women. I loved it and am working on a relationship with a wonderful woman now.
My whole body shakes and I twitch when I come. I fantasize about group sex and anything taboo. We have taken part in a swinging party once with two other couples. His idea, but he couldn't come. I had one woman and two men on me. I loved it!
When I come I feel this tremor of waves between my legs.....rapid contraction and relaxation of my vaginal muscles is a characteristic of my orgasms. My sexual fantasy is to suck a female's clit for a change. I'd love to make her come and hear her moan with pleasure, especially if she begs for more. I have never taken part in group sex....the problem is that I'm totally in love and can't see myself with another man; a woman yes, but not another man. But I must admit that it would turn me on to WATCH live orgies....hey, I'm human!

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